Lithuanian cemeteries abroad
There are at least 100 Lithuanian cemeteries outside Lithuania.
Full of traditional Lithuanian large gravestones, Lithuanian monuments, Lithuanian symbols, and Lithuanian inscriptions, they are a treasure trove for ethnic, history, or genealogy researchers and potent symbols of Lithuania as well as hallowed grounds for those of Lithuanian descent.
Most Lithuanian cemeteries are located in the USA, especially in Pennsylvania. Some of them are the oldest Lithuanian cemeteries outside Lithuania. They were established by the First Wave of Lithuanian emigration (late 19th century). This was the first time in history Lithuanians migrated in large numbers. Despite emigrating, they continued to see the USA as a foreign land. Thus, they did not only establish their own parishes and clubs to continue Lithuanian activities but they also wanted to be buried together in separate Lithuanian cemeteries.
The quest for separate cemeteries was often difficult, though. Catholics at the time needed to be buried in Catholic cemeteries and non-Lithuanian bishops often saw no reason to have a separate Lithuanian cemetery. Still, many Lithuanian parishes eventually managed to establish their own cemeteries or bundled together to establish a Lithuanian cemetery. Furthermore, additional Lithuanian cemeteries were established by non-religious or non-Catholic Lithuanian organizations which bought their own land. These were used by a wide array of smaller groups of Lithuanian emigrants including Tautininkai („nationalists“), leftists (atheists), as well as Lutheran Lithuanians.
The Pennsylvania tradition of ethnic Lithuanian cemeteries in the USA was later copied by Lithuanians in other US states, as the First Wave of Lithuanian migration continued there, for example in upstate New York, Merrimack Valley of Massachusetts and New Hampshire, and the mining towns of southern Illinois.
In the larger cities, though, establishing separate Lithuanian cemeteries was more difficult. While in the mining towns, Lithuanians were often among the first settlers (together with other communities), in the larger cities, such as Boston, New York, or Detroit, they migrated into an already established urban fabric and land prices were high. One exception is Chicago, where the Lithuanian community (100 000+) was large enough to establish two Lithuanian cemeteries: a Catholic St. Casimir one and a non-religious one. Two other larger US cities that have Lithuanian cemeteries are Pittsburgh (PA) and Grand Rapids (MI) and – both of them also have a religious and non-religious ones.
The older burials in Lithuanian cemeteries (those from before WW2 and especially WW1) are typically large traditional gravestones with inscriptions in non-standard Lithuanian language (as the Lithuanian orthography was only standardized after the 1918 independence and this standardization took decades to reach the USA). Often, these long inscriptions describe the life of the person and his death (e.g. which parish in Lithuania a person immigrated from or how he died in the mines). In some cemeteries, images of those deceased are common on the gravestones, something unavailable in that era in Lithuania itself where photography was not yet widely accessible.
The newer gravestones in Lithuanian cemeteries tend to be especially patriotic in style. The people buried under them are from the Second Wave of Lithuanian migration, that is, those who escaped the Soviet Genocide in 1944. They always saw themselves as exiles rather than emigrants and sought to create „pieces of Lithuania“ in the USA even more than the First Wave did. Their gravestones are thus more Lithuanian than any in Lithuania itself, adorned by patriotic poems and symbols. There were artists who developed this gravestone style, e.g. Ramojus Mozoliauskas. Never would such gravestones have „bastardized“ or anglicized surnames on them but only the original Lithuanian ones. Such gravestones are the most common in the large city Lithuanian cemeteries, though (especially Chicago) as few Second Wave immigrants immigrated to the smaller towns and villages (or even if they migrated there at first, they moved elsewhere later).
Second Wave immigrants typically used the Lithuanian cemeteries they found that was established by the First Wave. The few new Lithuanian cemeteries they managed to establish were that in Mississauga (near Toronto), which is also a treasure trove of ethnic Lithuanian gravestones, as well as in Putnam, Connecticut, near a Lithuanian convent. Elsewhere, the Second Wave managed to create sections within non-Lithuanian cemeteries, e.g. in West Palm Beach (FL), Rio de Janeiro (Brazil), and Sydney (Australia). Even where this was not possible, they often tried to bury themselves not far away from each other, making unofficial areas with higher Lithuanian burial density.
While the First Wave (pre-WW2) era burials in the Lithuanian cemeteries are typically those of „simple miners and factory workers“, the Second Wave also included many famous figures: writers, artists, and politicians. Many of them are also buried in the Lithuanian cemeteries of America although some of their bones have been moved to Lithuania after it became independent in 1990.
Over time, Lithuanian cemeteries became not only hubs for Lithuanian burials but also for Lithuanian monuments. Monuments for Lithuanian freedom, for Lithuanian heroes, for Lithuanians who fought in World War 2, and more were erected in many Lithuanian cemeteries abroad, especially while Lithuania was occupied by the Soviet Union. Laws in many countries make memorials built in cemeteries safe from demolition, thus making Lithuanian cemeteries a safe haven for them.
In addition to the „emigrant“ cemeteries there are two other types of Lithuanian cemeteries outside Lithuania:
*Cemeteries in the traditionally or historically Lithuanian towns and villages around Lithuania (in Latvia, Poland, Kaliningrad Oblast, Belarus). Those are not strictly Lithuanian but the majority of burials may be Lithuanian. Some of them are destroyed.
*Cemeteries of Soviet Genocide victims in Russia. There, Lithuanians were able to erect small crosses at best and were often buried in mass graves. Despite hundreds of thousands of people dying in the Soviet Genocide, few remains remain.
The current state of the Lithuanian cemeteries abroad varies greatly.
The Lithuanian cemeteries of Lithuanian-American Catholic parishes (by far the most numerous) typically somewhat followed the fate of the parishes. As parishes included more non-Lithuanian members, these would be buried in the cemeteries as well. Where the Lithuanian parishes were closed, the cemeteries typically became owned by the diocese and accept all burials. That said, as the old burials and monuments are not removed, the Lithuanian character firmly remains, even if not in the name (such cemeteries are typically named after the same saint as the parish was named after and have no official ethnic designation, e.g. the cemetery of St. George Lithuanian parish would be known as St. George cemetery). New burials are relatively rare in those old cemeteries usually, many of them are still of the people related to those buried there before, and so Lithuanians will never be outnumbered by non-Lithuanians there. Typically, these cemeteries are well-cared for by the Catholic diocese.
The fate of non-Catholic Lithuanian-American cemeteries varies far more greatly. As they were owned and cared for by Lithuanian institutions, their fate follows that of those institutions. Some institutions folded and so the cemeteries became uncared for, even overgrown with forests. Yet other institutions fared quite well and the cemeteries are not only cared for but also especially ethnic, with Lithuanian flags still waving over them. The non-religious Lithuanian cemeteries are often the only ones officially named „Lithuanian“ as it was the ethnic designation rather than association with a parish that was crucial to them. Some of the „forgotten“ Lithuanian cemeteries were at one point rediscovered and partly or fully renovated by the descendants of those buried or by other Lithuanians or Lithuanian-Americans.
The cemeteries of exiled Lithuanians in Russia are often forgotten and not cared for, as the relatives came back to Lithuania after it was allowed. While various Lithuanian expeditions went to take care of these crumbling graves in the mid-1980s, the hatred of the Russian government towards these graves and Lithuanians in general later led to a ban on such expeditions, and many of the memorials built by Lithuanians were demolished.
Article by ©Augustinas Žemaitis.